Saturday, April 16, 2011

The Doctor on: What sane person knows what happens in the minds of women?

So a very good friend of mine has presented a theory to be tested: girls love boys more than boys love girls. Her evidence? Supposedly, us guys can only think of one thing at a time, whereas girls can think about several things. If that was true, it would explain a lot. The thing is, though, its wrong. The human mind can only consciously focus on one thing at a time. Girls may believe that they can, but they simply have A.D.D- they focus on a huge number of things rapidy, and in succession, but only one at a time. The truth is that guys love the girls more than the girls love the guys. While somewhere in the back of the girls mind the guy may be one of the topics of concentration, how often is it the most important one? the guy is just one of a hundred topics. For guys, on the other hand, everything is the girl he loves. Every song that plays, every sight he sees, and everything he feels. If he truly loves her, then anything that happens reminds him of her. he sees the right color (mmm.... she wore that the day we first kissed) or he hears the right song (This played on the radio when we drove to prom). After a while, she becomes his life. The girl, even when she is with her boy, is trying to concentrate on so many other things that she is never really with him, at least not completely. This is why my friend is wrong- she simply has never loved a guy enough to let him love her that much. She may argue, but I'm right when I need to be.

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